The Sundance Film Festival, known for its knack for showcasing crowd-pleasers, has potentially unveiled another gem this year with “Will & Harper,” a heartwarming documentary chronicling the enduring friendship between comedy heavyweight Will Ferrell and his close companion of 30 years, Harper Steele.
Ferrell, aged 56, and Steele, aged 63, initially crossed paths in the mid-1990s during their time on “Saturday Night Live” and went on to collaborate on various film projects, including “Eurovision Song Contest: The Story of Fire Saga.” The dynamics of their relationship took a significant turn in 2022 when Steele came out as a transgender woman, a revelation shared through an email with family and friends.
Eager to offer support and deepen his understanding, Ferrell proposed an ambitious two-week road trip from New York to California. The duo embarked on a journey that took them through diners, sports arenas, and biker bars across Middle America. These were places Steele once loved but was now navigating with a newfound identity.
“Will & Harper” serves not only as a testament to a decades-long friendship but also as a window into the transgender experience, especially for those who may not have trans friends or family members. Throughout the documentary, Ferrell acts as an empathetic audience surrogate, asking Steele thoughtful questions about her life, childhood, and the challenges of living in the closet for decades.
Ferrell’s attentiveness and generosity extend beyond the road trip, as he accompanies Steele to various places, offering his support during moments of vulnerability. The documentary captures uncomfortable and, at times, tense situations, such as instances of misgendering and hostile reactions from strangers. Steele’s unease in certain situations, particularly in places adorned with Confederate and Trump flags, highlights the complexities and difficulties faced by transgender individuals.
The film does not shy away from portraying the challenges of being a trans person in public spaces, including the unwanted attention and social media backlash. Ferrell, deeply moved by the struggles Steele faces, expresses his apologies for putting her in potentially unsafe situations, shedding tears and acknowledging his own limitations as an ally.
“Will & Harper” strikes a balance between poignant moments and humor, with cameo appearances from “SNL” alumni Tina Fey, Seth Meyers, and Molly Shannon. The documentary also features a “theme song” for their road trip, penned by another A-list friend, adding an extra layer of charm.
What sets “Will & Harper” apart is Steele’s unfiltered honesty. She openly discusses her struggles with suicidal thoughts, body insecurities, and the liberation that comes with no longer hiding her true self as she enters her twilight years. The documentary becomes a platform for her to share frustrations, triggers, and bittersweet gratitude for the timing of her decision to come out.
In a heartfelt exchange, Steele reflects on the decision to embrace her true identity, stating, “I should’ve made that decision 40 years ago. But I wouldn’t have had you guys; I wouldn’t have gotten hired (at ‘SNL’). I would have had a completely different life.”
Directed by Josh Greenbaum, known for “Barb & Star Go to Vista Del Mar,” “Will & Harper” made its debut at the Sundance Film Festival. The documentary, seeking distribution, has the potential to resonate with audiences for its emotional depth, humor, and the authenticity of the friendship at its core.